Self-Sabotage Cycle

Self Sabotage

Do you think you are stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage?   Do you find yourself trying to achieve a goal, or get a new job, or curb overspending, only to be constantly disappointed when your efforts don’t bring you any closer to your dreams?  Then you might be part of a self-sabotage cycle.   Have […]

The real reason your business is not successful…

People say to me, “I don’t understand why my business is not successful.” Or “I’ve spent a fortune on marketing but no one is buying and I don’t understand why!” It’s nothing to do with your marketing, sales, funnels, tech, templates or ads.   It’s to do with YOU, your confidence, your belief in yourself […]

Your Attitude Matters

your attitude matters

Do you think your attitude matters, or is it just a phrase coined by the industry of positive thinking?   I’ve just returned from a month in the UK and most of the trip was disappointing. Now I know I sound like a spoiled child and many people will say that I have a negative […]

LIFE RULES FOR SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS

success and happiness

In life, there are rules: restrictions in sport games, driving regulations on the road, religions practices to abide by, everyday law and order for the safety and smooth functioning of community.   Some people like to have rules to follow, they feel safe knowing exact boundaries, they obey the rules and can be very judgmental […]

Ask Yourself “Why?”

Ask yourself why

As we move into the second half of the year, I reckon it’s a good time to reflect on what you have enjoyed, created and achieved. And to question how the rest of the year can be even better.   As we approach the month of July, take the time to ask yourself, “has 2022 […]

The Drama Triangle

DRAMA TRIANGLE

You may have heard of “The Drama Triangle”. It is a relationship tool that was created by Psychiatrist, Stephen Karpman in 1968, as a way to show his clients how destructive their behaviour could be.   This diagram is a simple, yet powerful instrument to use as a reference in relationships.     Are you […]

How To Stop Procrastinating and Get Stuff Done!

How to stop procrastinating

Do you have a habit of procrastinating? Want to stop procrastinating and get stuff done?   In my years of working with clients to help them break the habit of procrastinating, I’ve found 5 deep-seated ‘stories’ that we tell ourselves in order to feel better about procrastinating. I call these ‘stories’ because they’re often untrue and […]

10 TIPS FOR BOOSTING HAPPINESS

Happiness

Happiness doesn’t just happen.  We create happiness. How do we do that? By doing things that make us happy. I know that sounds obvious, but you would be surprised how many people do things that make them unhappy. If you’re looking to design your life and create a future full of happiness, here are a […]

Random Acts of Kindness

Kindness matters

Why Random Acts of Kindness? Most Australian states are back in lockdown. Schools are on holiday and fun, family trips have been cancelled. The winter weather is a bit dreary, and clients are telling me they feel stuck and frustrated with life. So, what can we do to combat this?  Random Acts of Kindness!   […]

How To Deal With Criticism

How to Deal with Criticism

Imagine you’ve just come up with a great new idea that could result in a win for your business or personal life. You’re excited to share it with those near and dear to you. However, when you do, they seem disinterested, or worse they nit-pick, question and offer unwanted advice. You walk away feeling deflated […]