How to Deal with Stress
In order to deal with stress, we should first look at what stress is… Stress is the feeling of being under too much mental or emotional pressure. Pressure turns into stress when we feel unable to cope. Stress is a mismatch between demands made on you (real or perceived) and your ability (real or perceived) […]
Powerful Affirmations That Really Work
People ask me if positive affirmations really work. That’s like asking a personal trainer if you will get fit by exercising at the gym every day. The resounding answer is yes! Positive affirmations are powerful, and they really work, when you know how to create them, what to include and what to avoid. From […]
Self-Sabotage Cycle
Do you think you are stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage? Do you find yourself trying to achieve a goal, or get a new job, or curb overspending, only to be constantly disappointed when your efforts don’t bring you any closer to your dreams? Then you might be part of a self-sabotage cycle. Have […]
The real reason your business is not successful…
People say to me, “I don’t understand why my business is not successful.” Or “I’ve spent a fortune on marketing but no one is buying and I don’t understand why!” It’s nothing to do with your marketing, sales, funnels, tech, templates or ads. It’s to do with YOU, your confidence, your belief in yourself […]
How to Deal with Low Self-Esteem
Do you know how to deal with low self esteem? In our society today, it can be hard to feel any degree of self-worth. We are constantly bombarded with the shame of not living up to our own expectations or the expectations of others. We compare ourselves to retouched images and believe that to be […]
Your Attitude Matters
Do you think your attitude matters, or is it just a phrase coined by the industry of positive thinking? I’ve just returned from a month in the UK and most of the trip was disappointing. Now I know I sound like a spoiled child and many people will say that I have a negative […]
LIFE RULES FOR SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS
In life, there are rules: restrictions in sport games, driving regulations on the road, religions practices to abide by, everyday law and order for the safety and smooth functioning of community. Some people like to have rules to follow, they feel safe knowing exact boundaries, they obey the rules and can be very judgmental […]
How to Keep Your Cool
Are you able to keep your cool when caught up in road rage or discussing money problems or being judged by someone else? These are triggers for most of us but we don’t have to be ruled by these triggers. Learning how to ‘disarm’ a situation or person, is a way you can keep your […]
Ask Yourself “Why?”
As we move into the second half of the year, I reckon it’s a good time to reflect on what you have enjoyed, created and achieved. And to question how the rest of the year can be even better. As we approach the month of July, take the time to ask yourself, “has 2022 […]
The Drama Triangle
You may have heard of “The Drama Triangle”. It is a relationship tool that was created by Psychiatrist, Stephen Karpman in 1968, as a way to show his clients how destructive their behaviour could be. This diagram is a simple, yet powerful instrument to use as a reference in relationships. Are you […]