No One Worries Their Way To Success!
The statement “no one worries their way to success” makes total sense. Most of us know when we are worried, stressed, or anxious, the brain shuts down, we lose confidence and struggle to focus, yet we choose to worry anyway. We allow the unconscious mind to rule our life with negative thoughts. You may say, […]
Powerful Affirmations That Really Work
People ask me if positive affirmations really work. That’s like asking a personal trainer if you will get fit by exercising at the gym every day. The resounding answer is yes! Positive affirmations are powerful, and they really work, when you know how to create them, what to include and what to avoid. From […]
Self-Sabotage Cycle
Do you think you are stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage? Do you find yourself trying to achieve a goal, or get a new job, or curb overspending, only to be constantly disappointed when your efforts don’t bring you any closer to your dreams? Then you might be part of a self-sabotage cycle. Have […]
The real reason your business is not successful…
People say to me, “I don’t understand why my business is not successful.” Or “I’ve spent a fortune on marketing but no one is buying and I don’t understand why!” It’s nothing to do with your marketing, sales, funnels, tech, templates or ads. It’s to do with YOU, your confidence, your belief in yourself […]
Your Attitude Matters
Do you think your attitude matters, or is it just a phrase coined by the industry of positive thinking? I’ve just returned from a month in the UK and most of the trip was disappointing. Now I know I sound like a spoiled child and many people will say that I have a negative […]
LIFE RULES FOR SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS
In life, there are rules: restrictions in sport games, driving regulations on the road, religions practices to abide by, everyday law and order for the safety and smooth functioning of community. Some people like to have rules to follow, they feel safe knowing exact boundaries, they obey the rules and can be very judgmental […]
How to Keep Your Cool
Are you able to keep your cool when caught up in road rage or discussing money problems or being judged by someone else? These are triggers for most of us but we don’t have to be ruled by these triggers. Learning how to ‘disarm’ a situation or person, is a way you can keep your […]
The Drama Triangle
You may have heard of “The Drama Triangle”. It is a relationship tool that was created by Psychiatrist, Stephen Karpman in 1968, as a way to show his clients how destructive their behaviour could be. This diagram is a simple, yet powerful instrument to use as a reference in relationships. Are you […]
How To Stop Procrastinating and Get Stuff Done!
Do you have a habit of procrastinating? Want to stop procrastinating and get stuff done? In my years of working with clients to help them break the habit of procrastinating, I’ve found 5 deep-seated ‘stories’ that we tell ourselves in order to feel better about procrastinating. I call these ‘stories’ because they’re often untrue and […]
Life is Difficult
The first sentence in M. Scott Peck’s book, The Road Less Travelled is “life is difficult.” I remember feeling a sense of relief when I first read this – because, for years, I thought I was the only person in the whole world who found the daily grind challenging. I used to think there […]